You are 20 and if you say that you are not now then sooner or later you would fall in love lest someone else falls in your love first. Love is a beautiful emotion. Without love survival may seem a little difficult.
But today while chatting I realized I should tell you few things of what love is not and what it actually is.
Love is not giving up your existence for someone else. It is not being so badly into some that your own identity is lost. Love is pure. Love is about caring. When someday you fall in love with someone you would start living each day caring for that person. Give your love to that person with your whole might. But remember don’t be blind. There might be books and movies and other sources who would keep bombarding you that love is blind. That is when you need to believe one thing baby that love is blind but the ones in love are not.
When you trust someone you should be rational and understand that no one has the right to hurt you. But don’t be afraid of commitment or being involved. There maybe a time when you might wish to believe what your partner believes but just don’t let your own emotions and beliefs be overridden.
Well, whatever I tell you when you would be in love the world matter less to you and that person may become your world. I just want you to be happy. But my love if ever you don’t feel any of these feelings then there are chances that someone will fall in love with you and instill that belief in you. Love is nothing to be afraid of.
You are my one smart and beautiful girl.
Note : This post is written for the letter ‘U’ of the April A to Z Challenge and that this post is a work of pure fiction. Sorry for posting this so so late.